A wedding of an acquiantance is going to be held some time soon. You are now thinking of what gift you should give the newly wed. But do you know that there are gift giving wedding etiquette? Yes, there is such a thing. If you are contemplating on giving cash as a gift, read on first the gift giving cash wedding etiquette before you do such a move.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 1:
If a guest who receive an invitation can't make it to the wedding, they are not obligated to send gifts and much more cash gifts. Wedding etiquette dictates, however, that those who are unable to attend should send a congratulatory card for the groom or for both couples or a simple best wishes note to the bride.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 2:
Cash gifts or any gift items may be sent to the bride or groom's home before the wedding or to the couple's new home one year afterwards. This is a way of guests to lessen the burden to the newlyweds, such as how would they transport heavy gift items. Couple need not worry about renting a truct to transport the gifts to their new home. Also, your cash gift will be a great help to couples within their first year of marriage who are still in the stage of raising their own savings.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 3:
Giving cash gifts are not a violation of wedding etiquette. Couples need cash as a start up money for them. They need to rent a new apartment, bigger than their bachelor pad, if any of them has one, buy toiletries and groceries for the two of them, buy appliances and furniture that the two of them needs. These are just few among the many expenses that a couple would face in the first few months of their marriage which is why gift giving cash is a good idea to do and does not violate any wedding etiquette.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 4:
So how much should you give if you decide to give the couple cash as a gift?
It is a horrible idea that the amount or price of one's wedding gift should equate to what the couples had spent on your dinner at the wedding reception. It is untrue. You can give as much as you want and as less as you want, if your budget is really tight. But in gift giving cash wedding etiquette, a guest's transportation does not count as a cash gift to the couple.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 5:
Also, don't stop yourself from giving cash gifts if the couple has listed their preferred wedding gifts in registry. Buying gifts from the wedding registry list are optional; you can either give the couple the gift of their choice or don't.
So, the gift giving cash wedding etiquette fact # 5 is that you can give cash gifts eventhough the couples have a wedding registry.
Here are gift giving cash wedding etiquette for couples:
Wedding registries are gaining popularity these days. But there are limitations on how much the bride and groom may direct gift giving. Gift giving cash is a wedding etiquette violation. You should not tell your guests that you prefer cash than gift items or request donations in cash to pay up a mortgage or ask them to give you cash to fund your honeymoon or that gift giving cash is preferred because you will send the money to charity.
Whether you like it or not, don't ask for cash! It will make you look greedy, even if you claim that the money will go to charity. Also, your guests will fell less generous.
Gift giving of cash is an option to guests. They may opt to give cash as a wedding gift but wedding etiquette tells that you should not, ever, ask them for gift giving of cash. You may use the cash gifts in anyway you want.
If the bride and groom receive cash from guests, accept it and say your thanks, write them a thank you note the way you would do after opening a gift item.
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Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 1:
If a guest who receive an invitation can't make it to the wedding, they are not obligated to send gifts and much more cash gifts. Wedding etiquette dictates, however, that those who are unable to attend should send a congratulatory card for the groom or for both couples or a simple best wishes note to the bride.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 2:
Cash gifts or any gift items may be sent to the bride or groom's home before the wedding or to the couple's new home one year afterwards. This is a way of guests to lessen the burden to the newlyweds, such as how would they transport heavy gift items. Couple need not worry about renting a truct to transport the gifts to their new home. Also, your cash gift will be a great help to couples within their first year of marriage who are still in the stage of raising their own savings.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 3:
Giving cash gifts are not a violation of wedding etiquette. Couples need cash as a start up money for them. They need to rent a new apartment, bigger than their bachelor pad, if any of them has one, buy toiletries and groceries for the two of them, buy appliances and furniture that the two of them needs. These are just few among the many expenses that a couple would face in the first few months of their marriage which is why gift giving cash is a good idea to do and does not violate any wedding etiquette.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 4:
So how much should you give if you decide to give the couple cash as a gift?
It is a horrible idea that the amount or price of one's wedding gift should equate to what the couples had spent on your dinner at the wedding reception. It is untrue. You can give as much as you want and as less as you want, if your budget is really tight. But in gift giving cash wedding etiquette, a guest's transportation does not count as a cash gift to the couple.
Gift Giving Cash Wedding Etiquette Fact 5:
Also, don't stop yourself from giving cash gifts if the couple has listed their preferred wedding gifts in registry. Buying gifts from the wedding registry list are optional; you can either give the couple the gift of their choice or don't.
So, the gift giving cash wedding etiquette fact # 5 is that you can give cash gifts eventhough the couples have a wedding registry.
Here are gift giving cash wedding etiquette for couples:
Wedding registries are gaining popularity these days. But there are limitations on how much the bride and groom may direct gift giving. Gift giving cash is a wedding etiquette violation. You should not tell your guests that you prefer cash than gift items or request donations in cash to pay up a mortgage or ask them to give you cash to fund your honeymoon or that gift giving cash is preferred because you will send the money to charity.
Whether you like it or not, don't ask for cash! It will make you look greedy, even if you claim that the money will go to charity. Also, your guests will fell less generous.
Gift giving of cash is an option to guests. They may opt to give cash as a wedding gift but wedding etiquette tells that you should not, ever, ask them for gift giving of cash. You may use the cash gifts in anyway you want.
If the bride and groom receive cash from guests, accept it and say your thanks, write them a thank you note the way you would do after opening a gift item.
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At an outdoor wedding site you generally have two things to walk on – grass or concrete. There is the occasional gravel path or stones of some kind, perhaps even good old-fashioned dirt. (in a church or other indoor venue, you have a clean, hard surface that can be easily covered with a satin runner to keep the train clean). This presents some interesting challenges when choosing wedding attire.
Many wedding gowns come with trains – those yards of material on the back of the dress that are supposed to flow behind the bride as she walks up and down the aisle. Beautiful? Yes. Many are beaded and bejeweled on a gown that ranges in price from hundreds to thousands of dollars.
She also has selected beautiful satin shoes with four inch heels. Her attendants have the same style shoes in the colors that match their gowns. Gorgeous and stylish!
And the processional begins. The officiant is several hundred feet away standing with the groom across an expanse of freshly cut grass that probably has been recently watered. The goal is for everyone to maneuver through the grass in those spiked heels and arrive safely beside the officiant.
The bridesmaids, followed by the maid or matron of honor come in and with each step the spiked heels go down into the grass. (As the waiting officiant I often think the gardeners should pay the wedding party for aerating the lawn). It is not only difficult for the women to walk in the grass with spiked heels but also leaves the shoes with green and brown stains from the grass and dirt.
When the wedding party is arranged appropriately on each side of the officiant, the runner, generally made of paper, is rolled down the grassy aisle and the bride comes in, beautiful in her stunning gown with the long train. Her spiked heals sink down catching in the runner and she hangs on to dad to keep from falling. Sometimes the heels sink down through the runner almost tripping the bride and, like her attendants, leaving stains on her shoes. The train, full behind her, is wider than the runner and the outer sides of the train glide across the grass.
If no one removes the runner prior to the processional, the entire wedding party has to navigate the runner on their way out. It is not safe but it does lend some comic relief.
Now come pictures. The train is probably dragged over more lawn, more gravel and more dirt. By the time she is ready for the reception or dinner, the underside of the train is probably quite dirty and grass stained.
This is not made up. As an officiant I see this over and over. The solution? The solution is three fold and very, very simple:
1. Purchase a beautiful gown that has no train.
2. Wear shoes that don’t sink down into the ground. (At one wedding the bride and her attendants wore white flip-flops and the groom and his attendants wore black ones. They were dressed elegantly. The flip-flops did not detract from the elegance and everyone walked safely up and down the aisle).
3. Never use a paper runner. (In my opinion these are unsafe both inside and outside).
It seems like safety should outrank high heels and trains but this is just one officiant’s opinion. The choice is always the bride's!!
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Many wedding gowns come with trains – those yards of material on the back of the dress that are supposed to flow behind the bride as she walks up and down the aisle. Beautiful? Yes. Many are beaded and bejeweled on a gown that ranges in price from hundreds to thousands of dollars.
She also has selected beautiful satin shoes with four inch heels. Her attendants have the same style shoes in the colors that match their gowns. Gorgeous and stylish!
And the processional begins. The officiant is several hundred feet away standing with the groom across an expanse of freshly cut grass that probably has been recently watered. The goal is for everyone to maneuver through the grass in those spiked heels and arrive safely beside the officiant.
The bridesmaids, followed by the maid or matron of honor come in and with each step the spiked heels go down into the grass. (As the waiting officiant I often think the gardeners should pay the wedding party for aerating the lawn). It is not only difficult for the women to walk in the grass with spiked heels but also leaves the shoes with green and brown stains from the grass and dirt.
When the wedding party is arranged appropriately on each side of the officiant, the runner, generally made of paper, is rolled down the grassy aisle and the bride comes in, beautiful in her stunning gown with the long train. Her spiked heals sink down catching in the runner and she hangs on to dad to keep from falling. Sometimes the heels sink down through the runner almost tripping the bride and, like her attendants, leaving stains on her shoes. The train, full behind her, is wider than the runner and the outer sides of the train glide across the grass.
If no one removes the runner prior to the processional, the entire wedding party has to navigate the runner on their way out. It is not safe but it does lend some comic relief.
Now come pictures. The train is probably dragged over more lawn, more gravel and more dirt. By the time she is ready for the reception or dinner, the underside of the train is probably quite dirty and grass stained.
This is not made up. As an officiant I see this over and over. The solution? The solution is three fold and very, very simple:
1. Purchase a beautiful gown that has no train.
2. Wear shoes that don’t sink down into the ground. (At one wedding the bride and her attendants wore white flip-flops and the groom and his attendants wore black ones. They were dressed elegantly. The flip-flops did not detract from the elegance and everyone walked safely up and down the aisle).
3. Never use a paper runner. (In my opinion these are unsafe both inside and outside).
It seems like safety should outrank high heels and trains but this is just one officiant’s opinion. The choice is always the bride's!!
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The First thing you might want to ask is: "Why would I ever want to try and clean my own wedding gown?" You probably noticed that the wear tag says "Dry Clean Only". So if you're thinking of doing your own cleaning, isn't that taking an awfully big risk.? Do you want to take the chance of damaging or destroying your cherished gown?
Probably the number one reason of trying to clean your own wedding gown would be to save money. Everyone wants to save money....so let's examine this situation a little further.
Read your fabric labels carefully. If your wedding dress is silk or a silk blend then don't attempt to clean it yourself. If your gown and the lining are polyester then it is actually possible to do your own gown cleaning.
But before you start the process you should also consider: Does the dress have beads on it? Are they sewn on or glued on? Does the dress have sequins? Are they sewn or glued on? You would need to be extra careful if the wedding gown is beaded or with sequins.
Ok, you still want to proceed!
Take special care around the hem of the gown. You'll need to use a detergent mix, or even "oxiclean" made into a paste. Gently scrub the dirty hem. Pay special attention also to the neckline and "arm pits" of the wedding gown. These areas also become more soiled than other areas.
Examine the gown carefully for any other spots. Some wines will not leave a stain but should be scrubbed as well. Cake, food or natural oils from your hands can also leave areas that need attention.
If you are going to use a washing machine instead of hand washing, turn the wedding dress inside out before placing in the washer.
If you have a large capacity front loading washer then place the wedding gown inside and wash on the gentle cycle.
If you have a top load waster be extra careful. The washing action tends to twist your gown up considerably.
Something else to consider before you start this whole process: are you going to try and press the gown yourself or have it professionally steamed/pressed after you clean it. Hand pressing with an iron is tedious and can damage - even scorch the fabric and it can melt the sequins.
If you are going to have your wedding dress professionally steamed/pressed check before hand to see what they will charge. Sometimes your local dry cleaner will charge nearly as much for steaming and pressing as they do for their whole service. (see the article on local dry cleaning compared to professional Wedding Gown Preservation).
To actually save money, time and stress you should consider having your wedding gown professionally cleaned and preserved.
Several companies provide a complete kit to make it easy for you. The wedding gown preservation kit will contain everything you need. It will contain a shipping bag and box, a customer invoice, sealing tape and complete instructions. You'll need to place your dress in the plastic bag, the invoice in the bag, the dress/invoice/bag into the box. Seal up the box with the sealing tape provided and place the pre-paid shipping label on the box. Everything is pre-paid so all you need to do is take the completed package to any UPS/Fed Ex. Store.
Your dress will be shipped to you (no extra cost) to any address in the US (whatever address you have placed on the invoice).
Probably the number one reason of trying to clean your own wedding gown would be to save money. Everyone wants to save money....so let's examine this situation a little further.
Read your fabric labels carefully. If your wedding dress is silk or a silk blend then don't attempt to clean it yourself. If your gown and the lining are polyester then it is actually possible to do your own gown cleaning.
But before you start the process you should also consider: Does the dress have beads on it? Are they sewn on or glued on? Does the dress have sequins? Are they sewn or glued on? You would need to be extra careful if the wedding gown is beaded or with sequins.
Ok, you still want to proceed!
Take special care around the hem of the gown. You'll need to use a detergent mix, or even "oxiclean" made into a paste. Gently scrub the dirty hem. Pay special attention also to the neckline and "arm pits" of the wedding gown. These areas also become more soiled than other areas.
Examine the gown carefully for any other spots. Some wines will not leave a stain but should be scrubbed as well. Cake, food or natural oils from your hands can also leave areas that need attention.
If you are going to use a washing machine instead of hand washing, turn the wedding dress inside out before placing in the washer.
If you have a large capacity front loading washer then place the wedding gown inside and wash on the gentle cycle.
If you have a top load waster be extra careful. The washing action tends to twist your gown up considerably.
Something else to consider before you start this whole process: are you going to try and press the gown yourself or have it professionally steamed/pressed after you clean it. Hand pressing with an iron is tedious and can damage - even scorch the fabric and it can melt the sequins.
If you are going to have your wedding dress professionally steamed/pressed check before hand to see what they will charge. Sometimes your local dry cleaner will charge nearly as much for steaming and pressing as they do for their whole service. (see the article on local dry cleaning compared to professional Wedding Gown Preservation).
To actually save money, time and stress you should consider having your wedding gown professionally cleaned and preserved.
Several companies provide a complete kit to make it easy for you. The wedding gown preservation kit will contain everything you need. It will contain a shipping bag and box, a customer invoice, sealing tape and complete instructions. You'll need to place your dress in the plastic bag, the invoice in the bag, the dress/invoice/bag into the box. Seal up the box with the sealing tape provided and place the pre-paid shipping label on the box. Everything is pre-paid so all you need to do is take the completed package to any UPS/Fed Ex. Store.
Your dress will be shipped to you (no extra cost) to any address in the US (whatever address you have placed on the invoice).
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Green tea is no longer a mystical beverage only available in trendy cafes and specialist shops. In fact, today its popularity is so vast that it can be found in abundant variety on supermarket shelves and even alongside cappuccinos in coffee vending machines. So what led to this popularity, and why is green tea’s reputation more squeaky clean than a standard brew?
The history of green tea stems back as far as traditional consumption to China in around 2000bc. By the 12th Century it had begun to spread across the continent to Japan with the travels of Japanese Buddhist Priest Myōan Eisai; and onward to India and Thailand thereafter. The drinking of green tea in Japan has since become more part of everyday life and is considered in a similar manner to which black tea is in the west with varying quality and price differences.
All tea has been subject to extensive research regarding health benefits, but whilst black teas have been scientifically proven to lower coronary artery disease, the positive effects of green teas have long been regarded as diverse and far reaching. In further active promotion, Eisai wrote Book of Tea (Kissa Yojoki) in 1191, which promoted the positive effects of green tea on the body, most notably, vital organs such as the heart and brain.
In more recent years, many of these claims have been proven scientifically. In the so called ‘war against obesity’ in the UK, Birmingham University has found that green tea promotes the rate of fat oxidation by 17 percent. Similarly, the American Association for Cancer Research used Polyphenon E (a green tea property) in tests on rats and found that just under half of those tested were as likely to develop colon cancer.
Similarly, green tea has also increased in its popularity due to its lack of the stimulant caffeine and its calming properties because of this. Although black tea and coffee are well-known for their caffeine content ranging anywhere between 30 and 100 milligrams, on average green tea contains about 70 percent less and so is less likely to lead to a dependence (caffeinism). Additionally, there are many ways that green tea research is set to explore new further benefits, such as fighting LDL Cholesterol and stopping Parkinson’s Disease.
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A wedding is a very special event in everyone's life. Everything has to be perfect, however many brides do not take into consideration that their wedding hairstyle plays a very important part on their overall look. If you are wearing a veil or a headpiece, your hair needs to be as perfect as your gown. Sometimes it can take up to two months to treat and condition your hair.
Hair care usually requires a lot of work. Frequent visits to the hairdresser may be necessary to ensure that your hair is in excellent condition for your wedding. Trimming all of the split ends is just the beginning this not only keeps your hair healthy, it will also help your hair grow faster.
There are different hair types, and using a shampoo that is right for your specific type is critical to keeping your hair healthy and beautiful. It is recommended that you avoid using blow dryers and curling irons, as they tend to over dry your hair and leave it susceptible to breaking and split ends.
When there is no time to let your hair grow, and the damage to your hair is extensive, you may want to consider using a hairpiece. These are easily attached to your hair. Hairpieces are so realistic that no one will tell the difference.
Once your hair is in excellent condition, choosing which hairstyle will be best for your wedding theme. There are several different ways you can style your hair.
You could twist it into a bun or pin it back. If you are not sure which style will fit into your wedding theme, do some research. Wedding hairstyle you can choose from include romantic, elegant, modern or formal. It would benefit you to research as much as possible before finally settling on you chosen wedding hairstyle.
There are hundreds of wedding magazines and books to look through to find the exact style you want. The Internet holds a wealth of information, and wedding styles are no exception.
When you have found the perfect wedding hairstyle, you can bring a picture to your hairdresser. If the style is right for your hair type, then your stylist will fix your hair.
When you have decided on a wedding hairstyle, you do not want to wait till your wedding day to see how it will look. Having your hairstylist fix your hair in the chosen style will assist you in your decision to keep it or change it to another style. This will also show you if your hairstylist has the necessary skills.
It is crucial to make sure that you give your stylist plenty of notice on the date of your wedding day. There are many things that can go wrong, and often do. It is recommended that you schedule your hair appointment early enough in the morning so that you can finish all the last minute details.
Summary:
Your wedding hairstyle is an important part of your wedding. Your veil or hairpiece will draw as much attention as your gown. Doing some research will reveal that it is not a simple decision, but rather a complex one because it will complete your wedding ensemble.
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MULTI-ETHNIC, MULTI-CULTURAL & INTER-RACIAL WEDDINGS IS DISCUSSED.
You won't find this topic on many of the other 'mainstream' wedding websites. This is why we are covering it here. You see, we are not out to be just another wedding website. This is a website run by true, veteran wedding professionals. And as such, we will be offering up all of our advice based on our real world experience in the wedding market!
In this melting pot that we call the USA, our home, many people from all walks of life meet and ultimately fall in love. Through the years, many couples have been faced with the challenge of not only blending multiple traditions into their new household, but have been increasingly pressured, interested and excited (pick one or all that fits you), to blend these traditions, handed down by generations prior, into their wedding day.
One such couple, Crystal and Jatin, recently had a wedding where they blended not only 2 but at the very least 4 (and maybe more that they didn't share with us) of these traditions to please themsevles, as well as their Parents and Grand Parents. Jatin is a first generation, American born Indian living in the Bay Area. Crystal is an American Born Chinese-Filipino who also lives in the Bay Area. When all was said and done, their wedding was a perfect blend of all the traditions that their combined families cherished.
The Wedding day began with the traditional BARAT prior to the Hindu Ceremony.
To make the wedding day run smoother, they chose one location for all of the festivities. This would also enable all involved to be able to relax and recharge before each of the numerous festivities. In all, the wedding spanned a time frame of more than 15 hours.
The Wedding day began with the traditional ceremony called a BARAT, in which the groom rides a horse to the traditional Hindu ceremony. Drums and chants, along with dynamic dancing from all make this a most memorable occasion. Once at the ceremony site, other traditions, which include coconut and fire, take place.
The BARAT
Following the BARAT, the traditional Hindu Ceremony
takes place inside the Mondop
The MONDOP
The Traditional Ceremony, as usual, took place inside the Mondop. This 90 minute ceremony includes a multitide of traditions with many of them referring to Fire, Ice and the Planet Earth.
After all of the Hindu traditions were observed, there was a break so that the couple, family and guests could gear up for the Christian Ceremony, which took place outside at the same location, under a Gazebo.
After the morning Hindu Ceremonial Traditions, the afternoon began with the Christian Ceremony. 
Christian Ceremony
After two ceremonies, the couple scheduled a time to go off with their wedding photographer to take pictures at an off-site location.
After which, they rested yet again, to gear up for the reception. The reception, with a guest count of upwards of 1000 people, was held at the same location, and mixed ALL elements of their combined cultures including, Eastern and Western wedding traditions, including Traditional Hindu dancing, a traditional Chinese Lion Dance and Western style toasts, dancing and cake cutting. In all, the BRIDE CHANGED 4 TIMES!
The Reception for 1000 guests blended elements from the traditions of India,
Christian and Chinese culture with the Bride changing her Dress 4 times throughout the Day!
Chinese Lion Dance
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MULTI-ETHNIC, MULTI-CULTURAL & INTER-RACIAL WEDDINGS IS DISCUSSED.
You won't find this topic on many of the other 'mainstream' wedding websites. This is why we are covering it here. You see, we are not out to be just another wedding website. This is a website run by true, veteran wedding professionals. And as such, we will be offering up all of our advice based on our real world experience in the wedding market!
In this melting pot that we call the USA, our home, many people from all walks of life meet and ultimately fall in love. Through the years, many couples have been faced with the challenge of not only blending multiple traditions into their new household, but have been increasingly pressured, interested and excited (pick one or all that fits you), to blend these traditions, handed down by generations prior, into their wedding day.
One such couple, Crystal and Jatin, recently had a wedding where they blended not only 2 but at the very least 4 (and maybe more that they didn't share with us) of these traditions to please themsevles, as well as their Parents and Grand Parents. Jatin is a first generation, American born Indian living in the Bay Area. Crystal is an American Born Chinese-Filipino who also lives in the Bay Area. When all was said and done, their wedding was a perfect blend of all the traditions
that their combined families cherished.
The Wedding day began with the traditional BARAT prior to the Hindu Ceremony.
To make the wedding day run smoother, they chose one location for all of the festivities. This would also enable all involved to be able to relax and recharge before each of the numerous festivities. In all, the wedding spanned a time frame of more than 15 hours.
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The Wedding day began with the traditional ceremony called a BARAT, in which the groom rides a horse to the traditional Hindu ceremony. Drums and chants, along with dynamic dancing from all make this a most memorable occasion. Once at the ceremony site, other traditions, which include coconut and fire, take place.
The BARAT
Following the BARAT, the traditional Hindu Ceremony
takes place inside the Mondop
The MONDOP
The Traditional Ceremony, as usual, took place inside the Mondop. This 90 minute ceremony includes a multitide of traditions with many of them referring to Fire, Ice and the Planet Earth.
After all of the Hindu traditions were observed, there was a break so that the couple, family and guests could gear up for the Christian Ceremony, which took place outside at the same location, under a Gazebo.
After the morning Hindu Ceremonial Traditions, the afternoon began with the Christian Ceremony.
Christian Ceremony
After two ceremonies, the couple scheduled a time to go off with their wedding photographer to take pictures at an off-site location.
After which, they rested yet again, to gear up for the reception. The reception, with a guest count of upwards of 1000 people, was held at the same location, and mixed ALL elements of their combined cultures including, Eastern and Western wedding traditions, including Traditional Hindu dancing, a traditional Chinese Lion Dance and Western style toasts, dancing and cake cutting. In all, the BRIDE CHANGED 4 TIMES!
The Reception for 1000 guests blended elements from the traditions of India,
Christian and Chinese culture with the Bride changing her Dress 4 times throughout the Day!
Chinese Lion Dance
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Western Style Toast
MULTI-ETHNIC, MULTI-CULTURAL & INTER-RACIAL WEDDINGS IS DISCUSSED.
You won't find this topic on many of the other 'mainstream' wedding websites. This is why we are covering it here. You see, we are not out to be just another wedding website. This is a website run by true, veteran wedding professionals. And as such, we will be offering up all of our advice based on our real world experience in the wedding market!
In this melting pot that we call the USA, our home, many people from all walks of life meet and ultimately fall in love. Through the years, many couples have been faced with the challenge of not only blending multiple traditions into their new household, but have been increasingly pressured, interested and excited (pick one or all that fits you), to blend these traditions, handed down by generations prior, into their wedding day.
One such couple, Crystal and Jatin, recently had a wedding where they blended not only 2 but at the very least 4 (and maybe more that they didn't share with us) of these traditions to please themsevles, as well as their Parents and Grand Parents. Jatin is a first generation, American born Indian living in the Bay Area. Crystal is an American Born Chinese-Filipino who also lives in the Bay Area. When all was said and done, their wedding was a perfect blend of all the traditions
that their combined families cherished.
The Wedding day began with the traditional BARAT prior to the Hindu Ceremony.
To make the wedding day run smoother, they chose one location for all of the festivities. This would also enable all involved to be able to relax and recharge before each of the numerous festivities. In all, the wedding spanned a time frame of more than 15 hours. The Wedding day began with the traditional ceremony called a BARAT, in which the groom rides a horse to the traditional Hindu ceremony. Drums and chants, along with dynamic dancing from all make this a most memorable occasion. Once at the ceremony site, other traditions, which include coconut and fire, take place.
The BARAT
Following the BARAT, the traditional Hindu Ceremony
takes place inside the Mondop
The MONDOP
The Traditional Ceremony, as usual, took place inside the Mondop. This 90 minute ceremony includes a multitide of traditions with many of them referring to Fire, Ice and the Planet Earth.
After all of the Hindu traditions were observed, there was a break so that the couple, family and guests could gear up for the Christian Ceremony, which took place outside at the same location, under a Gazebo.
After the morning Hindu Ceremonial Traditions, the afternoon began with the Christian Ceremony.
Christian Ceremony
After two ceremonies, the couple scheduled a time to go off with their wedding photographer to take pictures at an off-site location.
After which, they rested yet again, to gear up for the reception. The reception, with a guest count of upwards of 1000 people, was held at the same location, and mixed ALL elements of their combined cultures including, Eastern and Western wedding traditions, including Traditional Hindu dancing, a traditional Chinese Lion Dance and Western style toasts, dancing and cake cutting. In all, the BRIDE CHANGED 4 TIMES!
The Reception for 1000 guests blended elements from the traditions of India,
Christian and Chinese culture with the Bride changing her Dress 4 times throughout the Day!
Chinese Lion Dance
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While everyone thinks about wedding rings, there is always more jewelry at any wedding than those two, simple bands. Whether it's the bride or the groom, care should be taken in selecting the right accessories, and the correct amount of them, to keep the taste and decor of the ceremony.
First and foremost, attention should be paid to the wedding rings. These will be the focus of all other decisions. What metal are the wedding rings made of? If they're simple gold, then other accessories such as the bride's ear rings or the groom's watch, should also be gold, or at the very least gold plated. If on the other hand the rings are of a darker metal, such as black tungsten carbide or titanium, than other accessories should contrast well with that metal, such as onyx or obsidian stones set in silver.
It should also go without saying that the dress and suit of the bride and groom should reflect their choices of jewelry. For instance, if a groom has a dark wedding band, then a black suit is ideal. If a bride also has a dark band, then her dress shouldn't be pure white. Adding a layer of dark trim to a white dress would provide the proper contrast to make the ring work well with her attire, however. The same goes for the groom, in that if his wedding band is a lighter color, then a darker suit should be broken up by lighter colors to add contrast. A white gold or silver ring would be set off by a white vest with a black suit, perhaps a dark tie with a silver pin, using a second piece of jewelry to add an extra touch to the ensemble.
Which pieces of jewelry will be worn at a wedding, and by whom, has an impact on the entire ceremony, and they should be carefully thought out.
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I just recently had a friend ask me how to handle the fact that her family was trying to emotionally sabotage her up-coming marriage. They didn't approve of her partner. This is an amazingly common issue. Most people have at some point faced parents being damagingly judgmental about a choice of partner. But what a disaster when this takes places around the time you're looking to say "I do"!
I've heard all sorts of variants on this theme. "I hate what I'm studying, but my parents say I should finish my degree." or "I work as an X, not because that's what I wanted, but because my family pushed me in that direction."
The truth is, families can be great supporters sometimes. They can guide us, shelter us, and nurture us when we're hurting. But - and it's a big but - families can also be very destructive if they aren't autonomy supporting, especially once the kids have grown up.
The process starts this way. As children, we learn to look to our parents and siblings to give us hints to where there may be danger. Remember when you were a terrified kid in a scary movie and your Dad put his arm around you and said everything'll be ok? Or, on the other hand, when you were doing something dangerous and didn't realise it? Your Mom swooped in and stopped you before disaster hit.
Basically, in times of stress or uncertainty you got used to looking to your parents for advice, AND THEY GOT USED TO GUIDING YOU and having the power to stop or encourage you.
Well, both parents and kids get confused in later life. Not only is it a huge step for a young adult to "take control of their lives" and go against family wisdom, be it with a choice of partners, career or lifestyle. But parents also have trouble. Because they're trying to prevent their kids from making what they see as a mistake, they can bully, become beligerent and come out with great little kernels like: "You're throwing your life away."
The key to dealing with reactions like this is twofold. The first aspect is to isolate yourself, if only for a few days. Go to someone's cottage. Take a road trip. Stay with a friend in another city.
And now, you want to do this without whoever's been pressuring you, like your parents or even an interfering friend and/or partner.
In this time, you need to square stuff with yourself. Why do you want to make a change? Are you sure of your choice? Are your motives the rights ones?
If the answers to all these questions are "Yes". Then you've got half your answer. You know in your heart what is right for you.
Why do I recommend this check-in with yourself?
Because, rebellious little teenagers that we are, even as adults, often we do things in "reaction" to those around us. For example, "You don't think I should be with this guy? Ok, I'm going to buy a ring." or "You don't think I should move just now? Well I'll call the realtor tommorrow morning!"
For this reason, it's very important to get straight in your head what decisions are yours and what you've done in reaction to other people's (overbearing) opinions.
In the case of a family sabotaging an up-coming marriage, I'd ask myself: "Why do I want to get married at a time when my family has little confidence. If these memories will last a lifetime, wouldn't I rather they be as perfect as possible? And if money is an issue, why not save for 6 months?"
Once you've got this straight, it's time to take on your family. Sit down the contrary members one by one and start with something like:
"I know you don't think what I'm doing is a good idea, but I'm an adult and I've made a choice. There's nothing you can do to change my mind. Actually, now, you're in the process of ruining our relationship by trying to undermine my autonomy and self-esteem. I value our relationship and so want us to straighten this out productively. But you need to learn to respect my judgement. It is me who chooses how to live my life. It's me that will live with the consequences of my actions and who will be happy in my own way. It's my life."
After that, let the other person talk, but don't let them start with the "You're making a bad decision" thing. You're an adult. They have a right to a different view and to draw your attention to details you might have overlooked, but you have a right to your autonomy. And ultimately, it's up to your family to learn to love the person you really are, not the person they'd want you to be.
Be courageous. If you play this type of situation right, you can take a big step into adulthood. You can learn to be more able and fit to stand on your own feet in the future. No one can drag a person down once she's anchored by faith in her power of decision.
See this occaision as challenge an opportunity to acquire strength.
Go out an act according to your desires, dreams and capacities. Other people's support is important, but you're the one living your life. Also, consider that true healthy relationships are balanced with advice and the support of autonomy. Someone trying to bully you into submission over anything is not a great situation to remain in. If, after repeated attempts to curtail emotional bullying you don't succeed to contain it, you might want to take a look at the closeness you accord this particular relationship.
No reason to masochistically open up your jaw for a punch. Of course, we need to learn to be vulnerable time to time, but the intimacy of exposing vulnerablility is a privilege in a friendship. Someone who abuses the trust required to share insecurities perhaps isn't worthy of that trust.
Also, you might want to check your own need for approval. If you find yourself constantly requiring validation that your choices are the right ones, you might be lacking conviction of your own. Requiring validation, of course, opens you up for abuse, should you surround yourself with the wrong people.
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Long long time ago, there was a princess. Or, to be exact, a baker's daughter who was going to be married, but wanted to see the symbol of her love and a perfect piece of art that would add to the wedding and make all other baker's daughters green-eyed.
The father thought and thought and thought and finally came up with an idea. He made up to small figurines of a bride and groom and put them on the top of a wedding cake. Daughter was furious, but everyone else liked the idea. And that's how these special cake toppers for weddings were invented.
Nobody can really tell if it is a fiction or a story (which indicates that it is fiction, after all), but the fact is that the wedding cake toppers have been one of traditional symbols of married couples. The fact they were placed above the cake let everyone to see how the bride and groom look like (or want to look like, if you remember Shrek, you know what I'm talking about) and remind everyone that these two people are the most important that day.
Wedding cake toppers can be made in a wide variety of designs and styles - the couples are now able to choose the topper they think would fit the best in their vision of their future marriage.
While wedding cake toppers might be an excellent idea, you can still spoil it by not following the tips below:
1. Do not buy wedding cake toppers made of plastics, especially the cheap ones.
The point is that the wedding cake topper simply has to be as exceptional as you can get, maybe even more than your wedding cake. That's why the mass-produced toppers just won't do the trick. Handmade ones usually cost more than you think is reasonable, but they will change your wedding cake into something wonderful that will make your wedding a truly wonderful event.
2. Be creative.
It is a good idea to prepare the wedding along with the wedding cake and cake toppers as all personalized, not mass-produced items. The point is that this will add a lot to the romance and glamour imbued in the wedding itself.
Do not feel constrained with all the traditional ideas of how the cake toppers should look like. There are many new designs available and don't forget that you might also have your own ideas. Don't be afraid, just use them!
3. Parents´ wedding cake topper
Here's something for those who want to creative, but lack the budget: use your parents cake topper... of course if only it is still available. As toppers are often stored as souvenirs, there is a good chance that at least one of them is still somewhere near.
Keep in mind that wedding cake toppers are not just another add on to a cake, but a real emblem representing the love between husband and wife.
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All About Cutting the Cake
It's one of the most important parts of your wedding reception. Do you have a plan for how it will go? You should! Here's one you can trust.
Photo: Chung Li Photography
The wedding cake has always been replete with symbolism, and the tradition of breaking the cake over the bride’s head dates back to the Ancient Romans. Customs evolve with the times, and today the ceremonial cutting of the wedding cake has become one of the classic elements of the wedding reception. In addition to providing a great photo opportunity, it is symbolic as the first task the newlyweds execute together.
In truth, the practice of the bride and groom cutting the cake together was born of pure necessity. As cakes went from simple pastries to elaborate, multi-tiered extravaganzas, it became virtually impossible for the bride to cut the cake alone. She needed her new husband’s muscle to help cut through the stiff layers of frosting. While today’s wedding cakes have become much easier to maneuver, the bride and groom still cut the cake together simply for the love of tradition.
Cake Decorating
Because the cutting ceremony places so much focus on the wedding cake, many brides are opting for antique or classic bride and groom cake tops, as well as Victorian cake charms for luck and good fortune. The charms, in addition to the old custom of "ribbon pulling," have made a comeback in the most romantic modern weddings. Topping the cake with fresh flowers, Love Doves or a special religious symbol are all wonderful alternatives to those little bride and groom figures, however, there is no limit when it comes to cake decor. When it comes time to cut the cake, elegant silver plated cake knives and servers make the ritual even more enjoyable and stylish.
The Kindliest Cut
It probably hasn’t occurred to you that there would be any challenge in cutting a cake -- after all, it’s something you’ve done many times before, at birthday parties, or entertaining. Still, check with your cake baker or caterer to see if there are any special slicing instructions for the first cut. If your baker has used unusual assembly or decorative techniques in order to create your cake, there may be hidden peril. You don’t want to erroneously place your slice and cause the delicate tower to collapse or topple towards you.
Your baker will probably recommend you cut from the bottom tier. Remember to cut with the knife, not the server, for the quickest, cleanest cut. The slice can be quite modest -- you really only need two bites worth. Slide the slice onto the server, then place it on a plate. Use the knife to cut the slice into two small pieces. You can each take your pieces from the same plate for the ceremonial feeding.
To Smash Or Not To Smash
Once the cake has been cut, the bride and groom usually feed each other the first slice, symbolizing their commitment to provide for one another. Unfortunately, in some contemporary weddings, this symbolism has been completely lost, and replaced by a different tradition -- that of the bride and groom smashing cake into each other’s faces.
Let’s think about this little ritual for a moment. You’ve just had your hair and makeup professionally done, you’re wearing an exquisite L’ezu Antelier gown… do you really want buttercream plastered all over you? It’s true, the pressure can be strong to give the crowd what they want, but consider this. If you must do something dramatic to please them, do something dramatically romantic instead. After the first bites, sweep your beloved into your arms for a kiss that will make Granny blush. Playfully kiss away the tiny dollop of frosting in the corner of his mouth, or seductively lick the buttercream off her fingers. If that doesn’t satisfy them, smash the cake into the face of the guest most eager to see you dressed in frosting. That should shut them up. Besides, you’re married now -- you’ll have plenty of time for food fights later on.
Ask your baker or caterer to have napkins -- or even better a warm damp cloth -- tucked away somewhere convenient, so if you do get a bit of frosting on your hands, you can clean it up quickly and won’t spend the rest of the reception with sticky fingers.
Photography
It’s no secret that the cake cutting is one of the wedding photographer’s favorite images to capture. However, before he or she snaps the shutter, be sure to mention any specific photos you want. Do you want the traditional, posed shot of the two of you cutting the cake together, or do you prefer a more candid, documentary style? Is a close-up of your hands on the knife important, or are you only interested in the big picture?
Tiers and Slices
Couples used to freeze the top tier of their wedding cake for the baby christening that was expected to follow soon after. Today, many still opt to save a tier or even a few slices to be eaten on the first anniversary (waiting for a christening might be inviting serious freezer burn!).
Once the bride and groom have done their ceremonial cutting, the caterer’s staff will jump in to slice and serve the cake to guests. They’re the professionals, so step away and let them do their thing. Often, they will take the cake back into the kitchen to do the slicing. It is not uncommon today to have your baker make sheet cakes from the same recipe and serve slices to the guests -- especially if you are having a large wedding. This is a great way to keep your cake budget under control, and guests will never know if their slice came from a tier of the cake on display, or a sheet cake stowed in the kitchen.
In the past, it was the custom not only to send guests home with cake, but also to send pieces to those unable to attend the wedding. It is still a lovely custom to present boxed slices of cake to your guests, however, sadly this tradition seems to be fading away.
Like your gown, your wedding cake is special and symbolic to you, and the moment you cut into those fluffy, delectable layers together, you may become overwhelmed with emotion. After all, the wedding is over, the cake has been cut, and your sweet life as a married couple is about to begin.
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The wedding cake has always been replete with symbolism, and the tradition of breaking the cake over the bride’s head dates back to the Ancient Romans. Customs evolve with the times, and today the ceremonial cutting of the wedding cake has become one of the classic elements of the wedding reception. In addition to providing a great photo opportunity, it is symbolic as the first task the newlyweds execute together.
In truth, the practice of the bride and groom cutting the cake together was born of pure necessity. As cakes went from simple pastries to elaborate, multi-tiered extravaganzas, it became virtually impossible for the bride to cut the cake alone. She needed her new husband’s muscle to help cut through the stiff layers of frosting. While today’s wedding cakes have become much easier to maneuver, the bride and groom still cut the cake together simply for the love of tradition.
Cake Decorating
Because the cutting ceremony places so much focus on the wedding cake, many brides are opting for antique or classic bride and groom cake tops, as well as Victorian cake charms for luck and good fortune. The charms, in addition to the old custom of "ribbon pulling," have made a comeback in the most romantic modern weddings. Topping the cake with fresh flowers, Love Doves or a special religious symbol are all wonderful alternatives to those little bride and groom figures, however, there is no limit when it comes to cake decor. When it comes time to cut the cake, elegant silver plated cake knives and servers make the ritual even more enjoyable and stylish.
The Kindliest Cut
It probably hasn’t occurred to you that there would be any challenge in cutting a cake -- after all, it’s something you’ve done many times before, at birthday parties, or entertaining. Still, check with your cake baker or caterer to see if there are any special slicing instructions for the first cut. If your baker has used unusual assembly or decorative techniques in order to create your cake, there may be hidden peril. You don’t want to erroneously place your slice and cause the delicate tower to collapse or topple towards you.
Your baker will probably recommend you cut from the bottom tier. Remember to cut with the knife, not the server, for the quickest, cleanest cut. The slice can be quite modest -- you really only need two bites worth. Slide the slice onto the server, then place it on a plate. Use the knife to cut the slice into two small pieces. You can each take your pieces from the same plate for the ceremonial feeding.
To Smash Or Not To Smash
Once the cake has been cut, the bride and groom usually feed each other the first slice, symbolizing their commitment to provide for one another. Unfortunately, in some contemporary weddings, this symbolism has been completely lost, and replaced by a different tradition -- that of the bride and groom smashing cake into each other’s faces.
Let’s think about this little ritual for a moment. You’ve just had your hair and makeup professionally done, you’re wearing an exquisite L’ezu Antelier gown… do you really want buttercream plastered all over you? It’s true, the pressure can be strong to give the crowd what they want, but consider this. If you must do something dramatic to please them, do something dramatically romantic instead. After the first bites, sweep your beloved into your arms for a kiss that will make Granny blush. Playfully kiss away the tiny dollop of frosting in the corner of his mouth, or seductively lick the buttercream off her fingers. If that doesn’t satisfy them, smash the cake into the face of the guest most eager to see you dressed in frosting. That should shut them up. Besides, you’re married now -- you’ll have plenty of time for food fights later on.
Ask your baker or caterer to have napkins -- or even better a warm damp cloth -- tucked away somewhere convenient, so if you do get a bit of frosting on your hands, you can clean it up quickly and won’t spend the rest of the reception with sticky fingers.
Photography
It’s no secret that the cake cutting is one of the wedding photographer’s favorite images to capture. However, before he or she snaps the shutter, be sure to mention any specific photos you want. Do you want the traditional, posed shot of the two of you cutting the cake together, or do you prefer a more candid, documentary style? Is a close-up of your hands on the knife important, or are you only interested in the big picture?
Tiers and Slices
Couples used to freeze the top tier of their wedding cake for the baby christening that was expected to follow soon after. Today, many still opt to save a tier or even a few slices to be eaten on the first anniversary (waiting for a christening might be inviting serious freezer burn!).
Once the bride and groom have done their ceremonial cutting, the caterer’s staff will jump in to slice and serve the cake to guests. They’re the professionals, so step away and let them do their thing. Often, they will take the cake back into the kitchen to do the slicing. It is not uncommon today to have your baker make sheet cakes from the same recipe and serve slices to the guests -- especially if you are having a large wedding. This is a great way to keep your cake budget under control, and guests will never know if their slice came from a tier of the cake on display, or a sheet cake stowed in the kitchen.
In the past, it was the custom not only to send guests home with cake, but also to send pieces to those unable to attend the wedding. It is still a lovely custom to present boxed slices of cake to your guests, however, sadly this tradition seems to be fading away.
Like your gown, your wedding cake is special and symbolic to you, and the moment you cut into those fluffy, delectable layers together, you may become overwhelmed with emotion. After all, the wedding is over, the cake has been cut, and your sweet life as a married couple is about to begin.
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Your nails are a perfect 10!
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If you are like most, the night your guy proposed your nails were…let’s just say, not the way you thought they should be to show off your sparkling ring. They may have been chipped or perhaps your nail polish just didn’t do your ring justice. Did you run immediately, not to pass go, to the salon to have a manicure? Of course you did.
With all the planning, your nails may be taking a beating and they simply are not quite the way you want them to be but, don’t fear. I’ve some great tips from Essie Weingarten, president and CEO of Essie Cosmetics. These tips are guaranteed to have your nails ring ready and perfectly groomed for your big day and every day after. She's also recommending 'Cloud Nine', 'Happily Ever After' and 'No Pre-Nup' as perfect bridal polish choices. No matter which Essie polish you choose, if you follow her tips, your nails will be the least of your concerns on your wedding day.
Cloud Nine by Essie ~1. For the longest lasting manicure on your big day, be sure to start with a base coat so the polish sets.
2. Then, wait two minutes before applying each coat of polish and finish off with Essie’s ‘Good to Go’ Top Coat – the fastest drying topcoat around.
3. Always use a thick layer of a base coat made specifically for your nail type (dry, brittle, weak, aging, etc.), such as Essie ‘Fill the Gap’ for dry aging nails or ‘Millionails’ to strengthen weak nails.
Happily Ever After by Essie4. Keep a Cuticle Pen tucked away to hydrate nails throughout your big day.
5. Use Essie’s new color “Mesmerize” from the Spring Collection on your toes for your ‘something blue’.
6. Pack Essie’s Non-Yellowing Top Coat in your honeymoon luggage to help prevent your manicure from fading during your romantic vacation.
If you follow Essies’ tips, your ring won’t be the only thing that people will notice. They will see a perfect the 10 that you are (and your nails will look great too!).
With all the planning, your nails may be taking a beating and they simply are not quite the way you want them to be but, don’t fear. I’ve some great tips from Essie Weingarten, president and CEO of Essie Cosmetics. These tips are guaranteed to have your nails ring ready and perfectly groomed for your big day and every day after. She's also recommending 'Cloud Nine', 'Happily Ever After' and 'No Pre-Nup' as perfect bridal polish choices. No matter which Essie polish you choose, if you follow her tips, your nails will be the least of your concerns on your wedding day.
Cloud Nine by Essie ~1. For the longest lasting manicure on your big day, be sure to start with a base coat so the polish sets.
2. Then, wait two minutes before applying each coat of polish and finish off with Essie’s ‘Good to Go’ Top Coat – the fastest drying topcoat around.
3. Always use a thick layer of a base coat made specifically for your nail type (dry, brittle, weak, aging, etc.), such as Essie ‘Fill the Gap’ for dry aging nails or ‘Millionails’ to strengthen weak nails.
Happily Ever After by Essie4. Keep a Cuticle Pen tucked away to hydrate nails throughout your big day.
5. Use Essie’s new color “Mesmerize” from the Spring Collection on your toes for your ‘something blue’.
6. Pack Essie’s Non-Yellowing Top Coat in your honeymoon luggage to help prevent your manicure from fading during your romantic vacation.
If you follow Essies’ tips, your ring won’t be the only thing that people will notice. They will see a perfect the 10 that you are (and your nails will look great too!).
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Bette's hint ~ If you or your bridesmaid are planning to wear your hair in an updo, it would be adviseable not to wash your hair the day of the wedding ~~ maybe the night before instead!
Squeaky clean hair is difficult for the hairdresser to work with and your hair pins will fall out easier. You want to enjoy the day and not have your hair "fall down".
Until next time, I’m your bridal fairy godmother….
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Honeymoon Hot Tips
A Honeymoon is more than a holiday.
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Shop around for the best Honeymoon packages, which often include an upgraded room, champagne and flowers on arrival, gifts and even a free candlelit dinner. To be eligible you usually have to produce your marriage certificate, so make sure it is packed safely inside your hand luggage.
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Be demanding of your travel agent. Spell out your ideal honeymoon package and see if they can come up with a trip to match your dreams. If they don't seem very imaginative try somewhere else.
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If possible, don't travel on the same day as your wedding. Wind down together in a local hotel and then fly out the next day, once you've recovered from all the excitement (and stress) of the big day.
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Don't be fooled by glossy brochure-speak, pictures are often of the best rooms. Even a double bed is not guaranteed unless you outline your requirements beforehand, preferably in writing.
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Just because this is a honeymoon, don't imagine you have to spend every waking minute together - it would be too much for even the most love-struck couple! If your fiance fancies playing a game of golf or two, arrange it. A few hours apart will make your time together even more fun.
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Many of the 'couples-only' resorts in the Caribbean are all-inclusive, which means everything from food and drink to watersports are paid for in the one price. These can be a good value but, if you're not the active type and don't want to use all the sporting facilities, they can be expensive. It may be worth considering a half board package and then paying for your own romantic extras.
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The Caribbean is the number one hot spot for honeymooners but it is expensive, especially during high season. Watch out for special deals during their low season, our summer months. The weather can be unpredictable but the savings are worth it and honeymooners are more likely to be upgraded, when the resorts are not so busy.
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Ask one another how important the traditional honeymoon extras are~ like a four-poster bed. You don't want to skimp on your room but you could be spending the additional money on more worthwhile extras like wonderful food or interesting day trips.
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Try to pick a hotel in a romantic setting; overlooking a lake, on a deserted stretch of beach, on a wooded hillside or near some famous landmarks. If the setting is right, moonlight walks will take on a whole new meaning.
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Everyone loves a honeymoon couple. Don't be shy especially when making reservations with your travel agent, in hotels, restaurants and on airplanes, you should be pleasantly surprised by the special treatment you receive. A glass of champagne, a room upgrade, a candle-lit dinner, a free gift or just extra special service.
Worthy Splurges
It wouldn't be a Honeymoon without an indulgence or two,
How about?? A room with a view. Imagine laying in your bed or your bath looking at a stunning beach, city sights or simply the stars.
A spectacular ride in a hot-air balloon, helicopter, boat or horse-drawn carriage - holding hands the whole time, of course
A glass of Champagne whenever and wherever possible.
Candlelight, ask your hotel to put candles into your bedroom and bathroom
His 'n' Hers massage
A special memento, like a copy of the menu from your first meal together as man and wife, signed by the Chef, bathrobes or slippers bearing the hotel logo to remind you of the trip every time you wear them.
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Shop around for the best Honeymoon packages, which often include an upgraded room, champagne and flowers on arrival, gifts and even a free candlelit dinner. To be eligible you usually have to produce your marriage certificate, so make sure it is packed safely inside your hand luggage.
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Be demanding of your travel agent. Spell out your ideal honeymoon package and see if they can come up with a trip to match your dreams. If they don't seem very imaginative try somewhere else.
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If possible, don't travel on the same day as your wedding. Wind down together in a local hotel and then fly out the next day, once you've recovered from all the excitement (and stress) of the big day.
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Don't be fooled by glossy brochure-speak, pictures are often of the best rooms. Even a double bed is not guaranteed unless you outline your requirements beforehand, preferably in writing.
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Just because this is a honeymoon, don't imagine you have to spend every waking minute together - it would be too much for even the most love-struck couple! If your fiance fancies playing a game of golf or two, arrange it. A few hours apart will make your time together even more fun.
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Many of the 'couples-only' resorts in the Caribbean are all-inclusive, which means everything from food and drink to watersports are paid for in the one price. These can be a good value but, if you're not the active type and don't want to use all the sporting facilities, they can be expensive. It may be worth considering a half board package and then paying for your own romantic extras.
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The Caribbean is the number one hot spot for honeymooners but it is expensive, especially during high season. Watch out for special deals during their low season, our summer months. The weather can be unpredictable but the savings are worth it and honeymooners are more likely to be upgraded, when the resorts are not so busy.
Eight
Ask one another how important the traditional honeymoon extras are~ like a four-poster bed. You don't want to skimp on your room but you could be spending the additional money on more worthwhile extras like wonderful food or interesting day trips.
Nine
Try to pick a hotel in a romantic setting; overlooking a lake, on a deserted stretch of beach, on a wooded hillside or near some famous landmarks. If the setting is right, moonlight walks will take on a whole new meaning.
Ten
Everyone loves a honeymoon couple. Don't be shy especially when making reservations with your travel agent, in hotels, restaurants and on airplanes, you should be pleasantly surprised by the special treatment you receive. A glass of champagne, a room upgrade, a candle-lit dinner, a free gift or just extra special service.
Worthy Splurges
It wouldn't be a Honeymoon without an indulgence or two,
How about?? A room with a view. Imagine laying in your bed or your bath looking at a stunning beach, city sights or simply the stars.
A spectacular ride in a hot-air balloon, helicopter, boat or horse-drawn carriage - holding hands the whole time, of course
A glass of Champagne whenever and wherever possible.
Candlelight, ask your hotel to put candles into your bedroom and bathroom
His 'n' Hers massage
A special memento, like a copy of the menu from your first meal together as man and wife, signed by the Chef, bathrobes or slippers bearing the hotel logo to remind you of the trip every time you wear them.
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Getting wedding ideas that include children are becoming more and more in demand especially for people getting married again and couples that are only getting married after they had a child or children together.
Many people may be truly horrified at the idea of even having children at a wedding much less including them in the ceremony or reception. It doesn't have to be this way though and making children a part of the wedding (ceremony or otherwise) can provide an unexpected and fun element that can contribute a lot towards making an otherwise stressful situation bearable. Most wedding ceremonies have some surprises even if it is rehearsed several times. You can be almost sure of this when you include children in a wedding!
Following are a few ideas on how to include children in your wedding ideas:
1. Include them in the wedding preparations like helping with the selection of colors and other details.
2. There are so many decisions to be made regarding a wedding and asking children for their advice will include them in all the arrangements. This way they won't feel left out.
3. If the children are older they can be part of the bridal party. How great will it be if you daughter can be a bridesmaid or your son a groomsman?
4. Instead of a unity candle ceremony, we recently saw it done by pouring two different colors sand into a tall glass container. This will be a good (and safe!) place to include the children.
5. Handing out programs to the guests can be a task for children. Having supervision available may be a good idea if the children are smaller though.
6. Instead of using friends as ushers in church, teenage sons will be a great alternative.
7. Teenage daughters can help mom get dressed.
8. Bigger children can man the guest book station and make sure that every person signs it.
9. Young children are always fun to have as flower girls and ring bearers.
We recently attended a second wedding of a couple in their fifties. All the children and grandchildren from their previous marriages were included in the ceremony and reception. This gave such a warm, united feeling and made it a very special wedding.
A very nice touch was teenage granddaughters handing out a single fresh flower to every lady as they entered the church which made them all feel special and in the right frame of mind for a wedding.
This is just a few of many wedding ideas that include children. Anything goes since it is your wedding and you make the decisions. Who says it has to be by the book? It is refreshing to see things done a bit differently at times. This prevents a ceremony from getting boring.
You said yes and are to be married soon. The envy of many girls and so many things to think of! You will probably be collecting creative wedding ideas from any possible source. My sources were hand-picked and are trusted by thousands of happy brides. Find all the elements of rewarding wedding planning on my site including wedding ideas that include children
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By Krista Dunk
Do you know any person who is perfect in every way? Have you ever failed, fallen short, or been offensive or wrong? At a recent conference, I learned an important principle about love that needs to be shared. This is the ultimate in forgiveness - it's learning to love imperfection.
Marriage is the most tender, yet most strenuous relationship we have. If you have the expectation of perfection for yourself or for your spouse, you will be disappointed - probably everyday. Loving someone else means you love their soul - the good, the bad and the ugly (hopefully not too much ugly). At some point you will be let down, offended, hurt, angry, disillusioned, bored, stressed, frustrated, nit-picky, and upset. Can you truly love them anyway? Don't forget that at some point you too will be the one who offends, is wrong, behaves insensitively, hurts the other person, etc., whether you purposely mean to or not.
At the same time, a marriage relationship also brings hope, joy, security, partnership, intimacy, friendship, family, collaboration, support, fun, financial gain, passion, respect, honor, and love. Without pushing through the bad, you can never enjoy the good that an enduring marriage brings. Love should cover and forgive an offense, not dwell on it. Don't get me wrong, if we're talking about abuse or adultery... the rules change of course. But for other circumstances, learn to love imperfection while striving to improve your relationship.
Unfortunately falling short is a fact of life, even though we don't intend to or purposefully mean to do so. Examine yourself and see if you have unrealistic expectations for your spouse (or for yourself). Unmet expectations that are not resolved lead to dissatisfaction, resentment, depression, and more. Instead, practice forgiveness, patience and loving imperfection. It's not easy, but we all need love in spite of our faults and mistakes. We all need to know that we're loved no matter what - in the good times and the bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer... sound familiar?
Just keepin' it real: Be blessed!
Do you know any person who is perfect in every way? Have you ever failed, fallen short, or been offensive or wrong? At a recent conference, I learned an important principle about love that needs to be shared. This is the ultimate in forgiveness - it's learning to love imperfection.
Marriage is the most tender, yet most strenuous relationship we have. If you have the expectation of perfection for yourself or for your spouse, you will be disappointed - probably everyday. Loving someone else means you love their soul - the good, the bad and the ugly (hopefully not too much ugly). At some point you will be let down, offended, hurt, angry, disillusioned, bored, stressed, frustrated, nit-picky, and upset. Can you truly love them anyway? Don't forget that at some point you too will be the one who offends, is wrong, behaves insensitively, hurts the other person, etc., whether you purposely mean to or not.
At the same time, a marriage relationship also brings hope, joy, security, partnership, intimacy, friendship, family, collaboration, support, fun, financial gain, passion, respect, honor, and love. Without pushing through the bad, you can never enjoy the good that an enduring marriage brings. Love should cover and forgive an offense, not dwell on it. Don't get me wrong, if we're talking about abuse or adultery... the rules change of course. But for other circumstances, learn to love imperfection while striving to improve your relationship.
Unfortunately falling short is a fact of life, even though we don't intend to or purposefully mean to do so. Examine yourself and see if you have unrealistic expectations for your spouse (or for yourself). Unmet expectations that are not resolved lead to dissatisfaction, resentment, depression, and more. Instead, practice forgiveness, patience and loving imperfection. It's not easy, but we all need love in spite of our faults and mistakes. We all need to know that we're loved no matter what - in the good times and the bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer... sound familiar?
Just keepin' it real: Be blessed!
My Recommended Reading
Approaching the study of relationships from a psychotherapist's perspective is How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving. Teacher and writer David Richo gives practical and spiritual exercises for couples and singles who want to have mature and lasting relationships. Emphasizing paying attention and letting go, Richo gently and compassionately coaches readers on what he calls the five A's: attention, acceptance, appreciation, affection and allowing. His book, which proposes "letting go of ego," will help those seeking personal transformation in their relationships
Krista Dunk, Founder & CEO http://www.nwweddingplace.com/"Helping Pacific Northwest Couples Plan Their Dream Weddings & Successful Marriages™"Olympia, WARead our Blog at: http://www.nwweddingplace.blogspot.com/Copyright 2008
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You will need to choose your wedding reception with the greatest care. In fact the reception venue is one of the most important items in your wedding planning. You will be staying there with your guest for no less than a few hours. The followings are some tips when you are selecting your venue.
Book as early as possible
You will need to book the reception venue as early as possible. For some popular sites, you will need to book a year in advance. It will be even more difficult to secure your plan if you are going to have your wedding on a Saturday. This is because Saturday is a more popular day for wedding. On the contrary, Fridays and Sundays are less popular and you can secure your plan relatively easier if your big day is on a Friday or Sunday. Some venues may even offer you discount if you book for a Friday or Sunday. Of course you cannot just think of money saving, you will also need to consider your guests. Your guest may need to leave early if your wedding is on Sunday because they will need to go back to their offices early in the morning on Monday.
Scale of your wedding
You will need to determine the size of the venue you will need for your reception. You may only need to book a small pub or restaurant if you are going to hold a small wedding. However, if you are going a have a wedding which is large in scale, you will probably need to consider venues such as the grand ballroom in a hotel. In fact I myself am an advocate of small weddings since you can enjoy the time with your guests. The intimacy is what I love. Of course the choice of having a large or small wedding is totally up to your preferences.
Parking spaces near the venue
One of the most important facilities you will need to ask beforehand is the parking space. Unless you are going to arrange transportation for all the guests, it will be inevitably that some of the guests will drive to your wedding reception venue. It will make the situation very complicated if no parking space can be provided.
Space for dancing
You should also make sure that there is enough space for you to arrange a dancing floor in your wedding if you want your guest to dance in your party. You may also need to make sure that there is also enough space to accommodate a live band, which you may probably hire in order to heat up the atmosphere of the wedding and make the guests to stand up and dance.
Visiting the venue beforehand
You should visit the venue before you make the final decision. If it is not possible for you to go personally, you may try to ask if friends or relative who can be trusted to visit for you. You cannot make your decision based on the images in bridal magazines or websites of the reception venues. These images and photos are usually retouched by software and it may look better than the actual venue. As a result you should try your best to pay a visit to the venue so that you can make sure the venue is something you want.
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Ceremony: In the time it takes to hop online and buy a pair of shoes or find a recipe for chocolate cake, you can become an ordained wedding officiant. As crazy as it sounds, it's true! And lots of couples are choosing to have a friend or relative ordained-for-a-day to perform the ceremony. Sound interesting? Here are some things to consider before you make your choice.
Why? If you're getting married across the country, on a Caribbean island or a similar far-away destination you may meet your officiant face-to-face only minutes before you get hitched. Having your childhood friend or your Aunt Joan in front of you may be a better choice if you're hoping for a deep connection to the officiant. If you don't have a close or even passing relationship with a minister or rabbi, this is a way to add a real personal touch to your ceremony. Special stories or personalized vows can be more meaningful when they're told by someone who really, really knows you. While there are many open-minded officiants out there who are willing to adapt to unconventional ideas such as handfasting or a ring passing, this may be a great option if you're having a difficult time finding someone in your area.
The Right Man (or Woman) for the Job The person you're considering should understand and appreciate the seriousness of the task. The last thing you need is a ceremony peppered with sarcasm, inside jokes or one that's simply taken too lightly. Part of an officiant's job is to project a sense of authority. Choose someone who you know to be a strong, confident public speaker. Your officiant should feel comfortable taking a leadership role during this all-important time. Moments before the ceremony you don't need to be the one getting everyone organized and making sure the violinist plays on cue.
DYI Ceremony One of the nice things about having a professional officiant is that you have access to their wealth of experience. If you decide to have your big brother the orthodontist marry you, then you're going to have to commit to putting a lot of extra effort into planning the vows, the music, readings and the general flow of the ceremony. Your friend or relative should be committed to spending a fair amount of time with you before the wedding planning the structure and content. Handing your officiant a "script" to follow before the wedding can do in a pinch but involving her in the process is likely to yield a much more personal and heartfelt ceremony.
Is it Legal? While you can do some preliminary research online, be sure to discuss all rules and regulations with the county clerk where the ceremony will be held so you can be sure everything is on the up-and-up.
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Why? If you're getting married across the country, on a Caribbean island or a similar far-away destination you may meet your officiant face-to-face only minutes before you get hitched. Having your childhood friend or your Aunt Joan in front of you may be a better choice if you're hoping for a deep connection to the officiant. If you don't have a close or even passing relationship with a minister or rabbi, this is a way to add a real personal touch to your ceremony. Special stories or personalized vows can be more meaningful when they're told by someone who really, really knows you. While there are many open-minded officiants out there who are willing to adapt to unconventional ideas such as handfasting or a ring passing, this may be a great option if you're having a difficult time finding someone in your area.
The Right Man (or Woman) for the Job The person you're considering should understand and appreciate the seriousness of the task. The last thing you need is a ceremony peppered with sarcasm, inside jokes or one that's simply taken too lightly. Part of an officiant's job is to project a sense of authority. Choose someone who you know to be a strong, confident public speaker. Your officiant should feel comfortable taking a leadership role during this all-important time. Moments before the ceremony you don't need to be the one getting everyone organized and making sure the violinist plays on cue.
DYI Ceremony One of the nice things about having a professional officiant is that you have access to their wealth of experience. If you decide to have your big brother the orthodontist marry you, then you're going to have to commit to putting a lot of extra effort into planning the vows, the music, readings and the general flow of the ceremony. Your friend or relative should be committed to spending a fair amount of time with you before the wedding planning the structure and content. Handing your officiant a "script" to follow before the wedding can do in a pinch but involving her in the process is likely to yield a much more personal and heartfelt ceremony.
Is it Legal? While you can do some preliminary research online, be sure to discuss all rules and regulations with the county clerk where the ceremony will be held so you can be sure everything is on the up-and-up.
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Ceremony: In the time it takes to hop online and buy a pair of shoes or find a recipe for chocolate cake, you can become an ordained wedding officiant. As crazy as it sounds, it's true! And lots of couples are choosing to have a friend or relative ordained-for-a-day to perform the ceremony. Sound interesting? Here are some things to consider before you make your choice. Why? If you're getting married across the country, on a Caribbean island or a similar far-away destination you may meet your officiant face-to-face only minutes before you get hitched. Having your childhood friend or your Aunt Joan in front of you may be a better choice if you're hoping for a deep connection to the officiant. If you don't have a close or even passing relationship with a minister or rabbi, this is a way to add a real personal touch to your ceremony. Special stories or personalized vows can be more meaningful when they're told by someone who really, really knows you. While there are many open-minded officiants out there who are willing to adapt to unconventional ideas such as handfasting or a ring passing, this may be a great option if you're having a difficult time finding someone in your area. The Right Man (or Woman) for the Job The person you're considering should understand and appreciate the seriousness of the task. The last thing you need is a ceremony peppered with sarcasm, inside jokes or one that's simply taken too lightly. Part of an officiant's job is to project a sense of authority. Choose someone who you know to be a strong, confident public speaker. Your officiant should feel comfortable taking a leadership role during this all-important time. Moments before the ceremony you don't need to be the one getting everyone organized and making sure the violinist plays on cue. DYI Ceremony One of the nice things about having a professional officiant is that you have access to their wealth of experience. If you decide to have your big brother the orthodontist marry you, then you're going to have to commit to putting a lot of extra effort into planning the vows, the music, readings and the general flow of the ceremony. Your friend or relative should be committed to spending a fair amount of time with you before the wedding planning the structure and content. Handing your officiant a "script" to follow before the wedding can do in a pinch but involving her in the process is likely to yield a much more personal and heartfelt ceremony. Is it Legal? While you can do some preliminary research online, be sure to discuss all rules and regulations with the county clerk where the ceremony will be held so you can be sure everything is on the up-and-up. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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By Ann Keeler Evans
Summer is hot. Alcoholic drinks are great to serve, but alcohol makes you warmer, however refreshing the additives might be. So serve alcohol, but consider ways to serve the additives on the side and offer something fun and wonderfully cooling. And here's the deal: alcohol costs more to serve than hand-pressed lemonade! And even frozen lemonade can be dressed up and transformed into a cooling beverage. Save yourself some money and let your imagination go wild (and refreshing!)
In my childhood, there wasn't a big picnic that was complete without a washtub full of lemonade cooled with a block of ice. I'm not sure the tin washtubs were the best thing to drink from, but I can see them in my mind and they spell summer with a big S!
When it's hot, you want something refreshing to drink. Non-alcoholic drinks fill the bill. Lemonade isn't the only option (don't forget sumacade!) - and it doesn't need to be plain lemonade. Go on line and find some recipes:
Lemonade - Try one with basil and cayenne.
Limeades - Add to the tastes with mint and ginger.
Fruit/Vegetable combos - I make a cucumber, mint and lime mixture that we pour in a 10 gallon water jug, fill it up with ice and water, and haul to the local summer blues festival. On that day, I'm a very popular person! Other people swear by celery. Try it with orange.
Fresh fruit juice combos - Offer pitchers of Juices and Flat and Bubbly water and even some syrups. Put together a pile of fresh garnishes and put an inventive drink master behind the bar. If people want to wander over to the alcohol table after that to top their drink off with champagne, rum or vodka, they can. In Pennsylvania, you might find some people adding it to micro-brew lagers.
Fresh fruit juice punch - Where I come from, they call it Presbyterian Punch, it involves good juices, ginger ale or club soda and sherbet. Make your sherbet homemade with some of nature's bounty.
Switchell - Just checking, never had it, it's local to the area, I think it's made with molasses, cider vinegar, water and brown sugar. I'd probably make it with bubbly water for the wedding!
Gourmet sodas - the fruit sodas and ginger beers are great.
Ice cream sodas or floats - Use fresh fruits, gourmet sodas and gourmet or homemade ice creams. (fruits are more cooling than chocolate) Or get ice cream from your local small soft-serve place. Here in Central PA soft ice cream stands are ubiquitous. Add soft black raspberry ice cream to your grapefruit soda. Yum!
You can make these drinks more fun by making them relevant. Talk about enjoying the bounty of the summer during the wedding ceremony. Build a drink to share during the ceremony that combines the juicy goodness of the season. (Practice this beforehand, will you? You want to get proportions right and have a good drink to sip together!)
Promise one another to always explore seasonal bounties and gifts in life as well as marriage. And then find a drink you both like, based on what you shared at the wedding, drink it throughout your wedding (nothing like adding fruit juice to your champagne!), and then celebrate life throughout your marriage with a cool, refreshing drink filled will goodness, love and memories.
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